Are you in a relationship? If you are, are you pleased with the amount of sex and intimacy that you are receiving? Are you unsure? For many men and women, these question are not so easy to be answered.
If you are unsure as to whether or not your sex life is good, it may be time for you to find out, face the facts? Why? Because if you are pleased with the amount of intimacy that you receive, you should be sure to tell your partner about it. Doing so can help to improve your relationship. On the other hand, if you are not pleased with the level of intimacy received, it may be time for you to make a change, like experimenting in the bedroom.
So, do you have a good sex life? To help you answer that question, five signs that your sex life may need improvements, are outlined below.
Sign #1 – You Find Sex Boring
Unfortunately, many couples, especially those in long-term relationships, get to a certain point where sex just isn’t “fun” anymore. Does it seem more like obligation or a chore to you? Being intimate with your partner should not seem like a responsibly that you are required to fulfill. Instead, it should be fun, pleasurable and exciting.
Do you reject your partner’s try to be intimate with you? Do you put off going to bed with them, in fear of being intimate? If you do, your sex life may need an improvement or a change.
Sign #2 – You Are Left Unsatisfied
If and when you do get intimate with your partner, do you achieve maximum pleasure? If not, your sex life may be in serious trouble. This is most often the case with women. Some women find it more difficult to achieve maximum pleasure in the bedroom. But, know that it is possible and achievable. You may need to offer suggestions to your partner or guide them. Whatever you do, just be sure to take action right away. A relationship where only one party is pleased, is likely to fail, sooner or later.
Sign #3 – Sex Feels Like a Responsibility
As it was previously stated, being intimate with your partner should not seem like work have to be done or a responsibility that you must fulfill. If it does, it is time for you to change it. Be spontaneous. Initiate sex yourself, as opposed to waiting for your partner to do so. Spice up your intimacy by experimenting in the bedroom with new positions, sex toys, sexy underwear or simply just have intercourse at different times and places than usual. Whatever approach you do take, be sure to do something. Do not let an otherwise healthy relationship fail because sex is something that you would rather avoid.
Sign #4 – You Don’t Have It
To have a good sex life, you must first be having sex… Are you? If you are in a relationship, you should be. Whether you get intimate with your partner on a daily basis or even just once a week, this closeness is important to your relationship and not just in the physical sense.
If you are currently not in a relationship, that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t have or not get the opportunity to experience intimacy and closeness with another adult. Take action to start feeling wanted, needed, and loved today. This may involve using an online dating website or just visiting a bar with a bunch of your friends.
Sign #5 – Your Relationship Is Failing
Do you and your partner spend most of your time arguing? If so, your relationship may be in serious trouble. Despite arguing about a topic not related to intimacy, such as money or work, your lack of intimacy may be a reason to blame? Couples who are happy inside the bedroom are likely to be happy outside of it as well.
So, do you have a happy and healthy sex life? If not, remember that there are a number of steps that you can take to make improvements to your satisfaction levels. After all, monogamy does not mean monotony….